I am a stay-at-home dad (SAHD), which means I spend most of my time with my two sons, one is currently five-years-old, while the other is just two. I love them with all my heart but struggle with the daily machinations of taking care of them. It’s not easy, and frequently frustrating but also incredibly satisfying. I call myself “guerilla dad” because in many ways I feel like a rebel in a war against the monotony, insanity, and irrelevance staying home with your kid(s) can make you feel. These are dispatches from the frontline.